In Theory:

One of the things I appreciate most about studying at Fuller Seminary is that we were exposed to other religions and trained to respect them. Of course, as therapists, we cannot proselytize people. So we were trained to understand other’s religions as part of their world view as they came in for therapy. But we also had to take theology classes. While in undergraduate school I was trained to recognize if a religion deviated from the truth — at Fuller, I was trained to understand and value people’s religious views if they deviated from mine, even if I did not hold it as an absolute truth. And with that, treat others with respect. A high degree of faith, is when you are able to accept other’s ideas about religion without having to fight with them over it, yet, still hold to your own values. This is something I have incorporated as my own world view now — much like the idea of understanding other ethnicities.

Being very conservative, is that really good? Is that to hide behind one’s judgment? Is being closed minded and pious good? Or does it inhibit the forming of relationships that could perhaps lead to truth later on? This is how we can live harmoniously. Thoughts to consider.--The REV. KIMBERLIE ZAKARIAN is a marriage and family therapist at La Vie Counseling Center in Pasadena. Reach her at (626) 351-9616, Ext. 181, or by e-mail at kimberlie.zakarian@gmail.com.

Rabbi Simcha Backman: In my view, it is vitally important that we maintain an open, ongoing dialogue between people of different faiths. Thankfully, in the United States our behavior is generally guided by the principles of civility and tolerance — and for the most part, Americans of varying belief systems get along just fine with each other. Sadly, people who live in other countries are not always so fortunate. Many parts of the world suffer from daily religious strife and recurring cycles of violence. Often, this conflict is a direct result of suspicion and gross misunderstanding.

Having a candid, respectful discussion might avert bloodshed and illuminate the path toward peaceful coexistence.

I also feel it’s essential for people representing various traditions within the same faith to communicate with each other. Within Judaism, there are many different groups and sects that practice our common tradition in different ways. For instance, Jews who originate from Europe