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Love between a man and woman is a divine gift

February 14, 2008

There is plethora of literature in the Muslim world that covers the topic of love, both contemporary and traditional. Compared to western traditions, love is addressed more comprehensively in Muslim traditions. There are volumes of spiritual poetry that cover the love of God, faith and religious leaders like the Prophet Mohammed. Mawl{amacronl}n{amacronl} Jal{amacronl}l-ad-D{imacronl}n Muhammad R{umacronl}m{imacronl}, known simply as Rumi, is referred to as the “most popular poet in America.” Internationally famous for the topic of love, Rumi’s poetry is just one example among many that has cross-cultural appeal.

Islamic literature is, therefore, not shy whatsoever to delve into the subject of romantic love, the focus of Valentine’s Day “And moreover God has put affection between your hearts. Even if you had spent all that is in the earth, you could not have produced that such affection, but God has done it: for God is the Exalted in might, the Wise” (Quran 8:63).

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In Islam, the love between a man and a woman is a divine gift. Islam has always looked positively on love, romance and sexuality, seeing it as an important aspect of humanity to be celebrated only within the confines of marriage.

The story of the Prophet Mohammed and his first wife Khadijah is a beautiful tale of love that broke all the rules of Arab tribal society at the time. Muslim columnist Dr. Hesham A. Hassaballa has given a beautiful account of the love shared between the prophet and his wife in “A True Love Story” on his blog, www.drhassaballa.com for this Valentine’s Day.

There are many sayings of the Prophet Mohammed that taught men to be more considerate in all matters of romance. One example sums it up by referring to intimacy in marriage as a religious act of Sadaqa, translated as “voluntary act of generosity or kindness,” if there is mutual satisfaction.

“Of God’s signs is that God created for you spouses that you might find rest in them, and God ordained between you love and mercy.” [Quran, 30:21]

So romantic love within marriage is celebrated in Islam, and the Valentine’s Day tradition can be a pleasant reminder to rekindle romantic love.


LEVENT AKBARUT is a member of the Islamic Congregation of La Cañada Flintridge. Reach him at akbarut@yahoo.com.

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